Sunday, December 07, 2008
Monthly Update.... :)
Also, got traumatized by the blasts that happened in Mumbai....the other day, while discussing about it,with a friend, a thought came to our mind......that how those psychos managed to stop the entire country for almost three days.....they really have brains....!!!!
Anyways, doesn't make sense talking about it all the more,because I believe, if you can't do anything about any situation, its best not to crib about it as well.....anyways, here also there is one topic for discussion.....Empathy VS Sympathy.....(would like to know who one.....!!!!!!!!)
Rest don't remember,what else is there I can write about...but yaa......my cousin is finally getting married on 12th December,2008, and I am pretty excited about it, preparing dances as well.....(trust me I am not very good at it,but still managing to dance,because my mausi says,"Yeh hamari izzat ka sawaal hai...")
And yaa.....I have fallen in love again.......
Ohhh....I am getting late now...dance ki pratice ke liye.......
So, see yaa....
:)
Thursday, September 25, 2008
An experience, to be continued.......
By such answers anyone can expect the standard of the college and the students. Finally we managed to give 15minutes to such type of questions and unexpected answers, the moment we were about to begin the actual Topic, one of the officer from the Administration department came and informed us about the critical condition of the leady teacher who was in the hospital and requested us to wind-up the seminar. It wasn't enough....now see what he actually said to the students,he said all the sudents to gather on the raod, and asked the guys to carry stones with them and also ordered them to block on road and stop all the buses. He said that these kind of accidents can happen with anyone, so they are going to protest against it, and to do that, they will stop all the buses and might also break the glasses of the vehicles passing by...
It just made us think about the kind of education that is being provided to those students, they can only head towards politics nothing else,that too bad politics. If the teachers are going to ask students to fight, who will the responsible for the kind of environment, that is getting created. I know, even its our responsibility to convince those students not to fight, but isn't it necessary for the lecturers there to make them understand that they have come to study and not to fight or take action and decision against whatever has happened. Trust me such things happen and we blame the police....now obviously the question occurs in my mind, as to why we blame others, aren't we responsible for the same.
As always,no answer to these questions.....We moved from there and came back to our office with an experience which is still not over,as there were students who want us to be there once again and complete the session. Lets see whether we do it or not, but one thing for sure...that we realized, that people have potentials to do and achieve whatever they want to, they just need a proper guidance and good sources.
And the experience is to be continued.................
For you Raj, I still don't want to go there again....
:) :)
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Too Random....
newys........what a wella week this has been....its was monday yesterday....Boss told me on Saturday,......that we are closing very soon....thse ppl want us to work on diffrent projects....Don't know what kind of projects are these people talking about but its there.......anywys...week has already started.....Monday was the day we din't do anything and again today we ve not donwe anything so far.......just wondering how boring or interesting...I dont know so far..this week is gonna be....
But this gave a point to think about as to......is this what I really want to do....but yeah...just thought of one thing...i always wanted to do...TRAINING....Mannnnn...!!!! its so interesting...I ve got people who pay to listen to what I want to say....random shit man.....sometimes it is...sometimes it is not.....but i dont care what people really have to say about it......
but no doubt...........I am damn confused about the entire hell of the shit....
See how many times I ve used this word....I am sure...people must be thinking as to Am i really normal or not.....but nothing like it...when I dont ve anything.....to do...i write....and what do i write even I get confused....
Anyways...please force me to write......so that...i can update my blog about my trip to Chennai.....Its was fun mannnnn...!!!!!!! really.....ultimate...whenver I check the images...I really enjoy every moment of it.........again.....
Will definitely write about it soon.......
Thanks for reading this absolute random post......
:)
Monday, September 01, 2008
We are in an age,where at least in India, our parents are worried about marriages, And the whole exercise starts as we turn 20...At least that happens at our place..And it keeps on happening till the time they don't find a "Perfect" match for us....Mannnn....!!!!! Perfect sounds so imperfect....are they really a perfect matches...then why do we always end...checking out more then one person.....It becomes a matter of Soul mates then soul mate....
And for surprise,this not only happens with a girl,but also for guys.....the moment they complete their studies....entire process starts with a bang....
Discussing with friends and relatives......not only those people...but you will find parents discussing about the same with random people...and when it comes to marriage...these random people become child hood friends....Don't know what is so extra ordinary about it. Now the generation has changed..people are becoming independent,but still this one thing called "marriage" we are still dependent on our parents...or rather I should say...we are forced to be dependent on them....May be I do not belong to the same category,as my parents have given me enough freedom to choose my Life Partner....but it does not happens with everyone....
Two examples form my home....
Example First:
My cousin (sister).....only a few months elder to me...has been forced to get married to any random guy for last 5years....Absolute random guys come to our place......eat, waste our time and then leave...and whats the result..a big "No"......reason.....nobody knows...and I am sure...even god will be blank if we will ask him.....
Man....people at my place spent like anything...good food,good clothes......new curtains and this and that...Yaaaaiiikkksssss......!!!!!!
Can't do much about it...
Now another incident...actually it happened recently.....Another cousin (this time brother)....who is been forced to get married...because of family situations.....na na....family situations doesn't mean that they r not financially strong or something....but things and issues like Grand parents age and stuff.....all random shit...like how can you force anyone to get married when he or she is not prepared for it.... Anyways....Some other relative or some relative found a girl for him.......actually neither was he interested not ready for all the things... and parents and grand parents called them for lunch....man,can you imagine..the guy even didn't know the name of the girl..neither he checked out her picture...but was asked to take a final decision about his life with her...They came....checked our house...had food...talked random things....praised themselves....waise not only him....people from our side are nowhere lesser to them..so they also...shared extreme random things....and praises were going on and on and on and on......now imagine......was a real torture it was for the rest of the people like me...who had nothing to do with the entire so called "ceremony"...anyways, it came to an end...but jaate jaate...they invited us for the evening tea...to see and meet the girl.....like was that really required to call everyone...or what that really required for everyone to go....
Anywys,we were not and can never be the decision makers....but then....ok leave it...anyways, we went to their place.....had loads of food...man can you imagine...hey kept on placing plates with things...throughout.....
Anyways...finally they asked the boy and girl to talk and understand each other....like in just two minutes they are going to tell eachother almost everything about themselves....but anyways....but our Indian culture says that its a tradition...god knows who believes in such traditions now...
But anywys...they chatted....for an hour.....and during the session.....sometimes....from our side, or others side...people used to go to the room and disturb both of them....Man imagine that conversation was unending..they went for a drive and blah and blah and blah and blah.....
it went on and on and on and on......
Anyways, hall I tell you the result as well.....
Same as above.........
No result.....
As we say..No news is the best news.........so same was the case with the result,atleast for the people who were associated with the entire thign...."No result is the best result"....
Even we went like random people....ate food....wasted time...and came back......
But still, I don't understand.....do all these really required....man even i believe its all stupid and waste of time and money....
Anyways..people may not agree with me...but thats my personal statement or perspective toward things.....
:)
Monday, July 21, 2008
Have you ever wondered...what happens when people ask you to do something specially.....Or to read or go through something....stupid..you don't feel like doing it at all...
This is what I am going through, the other day one of my Ibibo friend asked me to start writing about whatever I do in the entire day, or about my job profile which include E-marketing and Language Training. That night while going to bed I decided that for sure from tomorrow I will do that,at least start writing about anonymous thing, obviously thats what I want to do, get into writing...start writing whatever I can...and encourage immature writers like me to go ahead...and jot down whatever they have in their mind.....
But already 3dayz has gone...ask me what have I done....I will say.."nothing"....just started another blog...something formal...Where I can write....about the professional things I do, anyways, If you feel like reading...what random stuff I write....you can check it here....I know,its not gonna interest you that much...but it includes what I really feel and think about almost everything in this world...
And now I am sure ,when I said...I want to write about E-marketing thing and all.....you want to know what I do..well...I work...actually I try to work....people decide in the morning about all the things they plan to do in the day...but I plan almost one night before...and end up doing nothing....everyday...because I complete everything dreams...so, find it difficult to do the whole thing again...(in reality)....I know its funny....but that how I work...
These days...I am reading too much to understand the Indo US Nuclear Deal(123 Agreement)..... Well, for sure...if I will be able to understand the whole story..I will definitely...let everyone know about it...
Oh...How can I forget about the one thing....which..all should know....my ibibo friends writes very well......And this time he has promised me that he ll write something...or let me be clear and specific....that he will write a poem on me.....Ahhhhh......what a good feeling....I am sure..every girl wants someone to write a poem for them....and I have no question about,the testimonial thing that has been started was because,some girl might have asked her boyfriend to write something about her.....you see,we women are obsessed.....obsessed about ourselves..And finally I have been able to convince one of friend to start reading..and I will soon get a chance to read what he writes..interesting...I just can't wait for so many good things to happen..
wondering....what is more important in life.....the random life we live or wasting almost everyday just to do something extra......atleast random things...bring more happiness...small things....might bring...big happiness...
Nothing else to say or share....
Will come up..with another random post again....
Bbye...
:)
Saturday, July 19, 2008
I want to fight.....Fight for myself...
May be we all have the right to say and do whatever we want, but not necessarily we get it. But yeah, randomly we come across such people, from whom you get the positive vibes, an inspiration, a motivation to move on....
I will not say that,I ve neva found such people in my life, but for last few dayz, I have seen, or rather realized that the number of people, who have been influencing my life have increased.
Initially their were only few people, I considered as my mentor. But as I ve been interacting with loads of people, since June, it is a surprising fact, that I have encountered more and more people, who can bear me, my thoughts, my ideas, and almost anything and everything I try to do....
But then somewhere down the line,I think one should walk alone, coz only then you realize about what is wrong and what is right. May be their are people, who will help you, or who want to listen to what you say but the best thing to do is to sit alone, have conversation with yourself, judge yourself, it is just another way to know yourself more.
Today, randomly I had a conversation with a friend of mine, and the conclusion we can draw was more confusing and nonsense, may be each is too caring, too decisive but I still believe that no one has given the rights to take decision for others, for you or for me. Then why do they do that??
All the random conversations usually leads us to a confusing situation, may be that a reason, we want to fight......fight for ourselves, fight for wisdom, and also end up fighting with ourselves.....may be people, ll find it stupid as to how can you with you...but trust me, its the easiest and the simplest thing anyone can do, without troubling others. That what we call self realization, some people realize it after committing something, some figure it out,just like that..
So now it my turn to realize thing...lets see how I come to a conclusion, that too...what it will be.Just praying for everything to be good and stable.
:) :) :) :) :).....!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Sick Day, Bad Day....Still Don't know what to say....
Have you ever wondered what happens when....suddenly....things start happening in a wrong way....or each day you get an indication...that you are actually moving towards a wrong direction....
But ahhhhhh......when we do something...we don't listen to others...we don't care what people say...or have an opinion about whatever we have been doing.....we just want to do it..anyhow....
Anyways....somebody has rightly said,"We learn from our mistakes" but I am just wondering...as to how many mistakes do we want to do in life so that we can learn...can't we use our minds at just one go...and sort things out....but no....human tendency.....is all about doing things, that others ask us not to do.....
I am sure...everybody remembers the story of Adam and Eve.....how the whole concept of life came in existence.....God said...don't eat that fruit......but...we humans.....why shall we listen to anyone...obviously we do,whatever we want to...and so, rest is the history...
Same happened with me...people said....no, Neeti...don't go there...and don't do that......maine kahaan mananaa tha.......I did,whatever i wanted to do....and people got a chance to screw things for me...and thats what they did.....No point in blaming them completely....because even i kept my eyes closed....now, I have opened them....ready to see things in a different way...may be it take some time to get things....back in action...but I have really learn a lesson of my life.....that "Never trust anyone, without inquiring properly....and also realized the truth that...every good looking man is not always right/intelligent...."
Ok,lets not get into the details......
And lets get back to work....!!!!!!
Something good will happen again.....very soon....
XXXXXXX :) :) :) :) :):) XXXXXXX
Friday, June 20, 2008
It was Father's Day on last Sunday that is,15th June, 2008. Another reason to thank Dad for his care, support, sacrifice, and love. Actually for me,its difficult to differentiate among dad and mom,there is no comparison between them. I think I am close to both of them, whatever I can share with my mom, I cant share it with dad, and whatever I want to share with my Dad, can't share it with mom, and the rest, I usually share with my brother, Yash, who is caring, daring and possesive...I am feeling lucky, that I have caring people around me, and despite of being in twenties they pamper me like a small child. ahhem..ahhem...This chit chat is incomplete without a new member in my family, and that my "would be", Rohit. A "simple living, high thinking" guy, caring and loving, my inspiration and motivation.
Anyways, these are the people who have the dare to listen to what I say. Actually the list is little long, it includes my Bossie "Aj"(my mentor,whom I trouble the most), Akanksha(my best buddy of all times,just love her), Aditya( cant stop fighting with him), Swati Di(best buddy to argue with), Akhil(well-wisher), Saurabh (who sits next to me, and can't do much about the fact, that I talk too much...hehehehhehe), and the list goes on and on and on..........
And finally without striving, I've found few more people who are going to listen to me, including few those who come under the category of "No Skill, No Will". I am sure people must be wondering, who are those unlucky ones, but never mind....they have paid to listen to what I have said, or I'll say. See its just a matter of time, everyone gets a chance to be lucky, now its my turn. I think things have started working out for me. And m sure thats a news for you.
Ohhhh.....suddenly I realized, that the biggest news of the year(so far), and finally come to an end. The reservation stir, that had costed hundreds of lives in Rajasthan. For that matter, not only Rajasthan, but also the entire country has suffered because of it. Again,India has tolerated the agitated but irrelevent incident. But what we can make out with the result is that, it was a political stunt, being performed my our honorable Chief Minister. The CM wanted to play safe, and wants to be a strong contender for the same position in the next election. Some percent quota in OBC category has been given to the people, who managed to make the incident an issue of their right, but our people had really endured the matter with strength.
Anyways, may be these thing are not required to be discussed, because, we accept that we don't, atleast I don't have the courage to do anything against it. So, no point blaming others, because I believe in the concept"Charity begins at home".
Well, too much of backbiting has been done about the Political News. So lets get back to, where we started.
I am happy with whatever I have, or I am expecting to get.. Glad about the fact that i have caring people around me, not only personally but professionally too.
Thank you all for your care and support..
So, till the next post.......take care.
Cyaaaa.. :)
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
Last friday I spoke to him, and he shared his plan with me. What is he thinking about our marriage and all. These things have really made me excited, can't wait, can't control my feeling, my self...for that matter....Still have to wait for atleast 10months, for any further move. This wait seems to be unending,please somebody tell me..what has happened to me... =). It not for the first time he is staying away from me, he is already thr, in sydney, for almost 18months, but these rest of months seems to be perpetual.
I am thankful to god for the happiness and to rohit, who considered me to be a part of his life. I am not trying to be too orthodox about the whole issue, but am considering this thing, because he has not only saved me from being presented as a show piece in front of random people but has also given a relaxed feeling to my parents. Now they are not worried about anything, atleast the procedure of finding grooms is a big task,at least in India..And we all know about it.
Anyways, I am not here to praise my self, or show to any kinda attitude to people,about the whole thing, coz I know what people usually think about it, only few days back,an incident happened with me. I was out with my brother,was having a good time, and incidently we started about rohit, bhai said that when he told his friends about my committment, he friends said that he is lucky, and my parents too...coz not every girls gets a chance to find life partners so easily..And I really felt confused, shall I be happy and proud for what ever the situation is,or unhappy, coz, thr are gals who every now and then, get into the whole process of presenting themselves in front of random people, try to be happy,even if they are not. This seems to be a rule, and all should adhere to it...There parents worried about their marriages and all.I really want to pray to the god, to help them, give them a support and love, love which is their right. Every daughter's right, right of every child, be it girl or a boy.
Anyways, want to share my feeling about the wait, that I still have to do, I always ask him to come back as soon as possible. I know he is working their for me, want to come back for me, wants to spend his life with me. But whenever I come across people who are together, I always have a feeling of jealousy, at times I become scared about it, nerves too ask strangely,nervousness is what I feel.
I was watching a movie today, I am sure people must have seen it, some people liked it, some didn't. But my personal propound is,that people should watch the movie atleast once....Its "Vivah"..While watching, every moment I was thinking about chiya, who is actually we sweet, caring, nice, generous, loving, understanding, and the list is endless.. Was thinking about the whole thing, how things will be, when we will get married. And also, I would like to mention a little bit about a small incident I read about true love, How age can never decrease the love, It happens from the bottom of the heart, and heart can never be old, infact it becomes younger day by day, with the love, with the experience. And also helps us to be strong, be ourselves. (Atleast thats what I feel, I hope, I am not wrong..)
Well, while discussing about it with friends, makes me more worried and relaxed at the same time. Really feel like crying, but find it difficult, to understand myself, that I want to cry because m happy, or because m worried....Confused......completely..... :)
I LOVE YOU, CHIYA.......I LOVE YOU MORE THAN MYSELF........
Finally, I want to thank people around me,who have really helped me, supported me. My friends, my mentor, my people.........and wana say...
"Let the love stay forever in everyone's life....!!!!!!!!!"
Amen....... :)
Friday, May 16, 2008
Yo Macha.......!!!!!!!!!!
Few months ago, there was a group of friends, who was simply chilling at a coffee shop, and randomly commenting on the passersby. While simply having a good time together, one of them came up with the idea to provide a platform to the people to rate friends, relatives and random people to rate based on their looks. Not only rating but also,a place where you can make new friends, meet strangers, have fun.
Their idea was to provide all fun at one place, then started the whole process,what to do? Where to start from? All the analysis and the research was done, gradually as the process moved, struggle for the name started, after loads of findings ans hard work, we came with "YoMacha.com".. Wherein, Yo means Hi, and Macha means a friends. People liked the name, so the process moved further.
On 17th March, 2008, this small group of people launched "www.YoMacha.com", without flamboyance, with absolutely simple looks, basic features, and then started a little bit of marketing procedure. Among the team, one person found out the advertisement policy and related things. Also,everyone was working on promoting it as much as possible. We asked all our friends to check the portal, not only friends, random people, general crowd, was asked to check the website, and make their profiles, not only just make profiles and leave and also, check the website properly and help us to improve it. And people really came up with suggestions, more ideas, not only the new things to be added,but also to improve the existing portal.
Finally after deciding the things to be added, after working on it for almost a moth on it, we are presenting to you, the all new "www.YoMacha.com". With loads of new features not only rating pictures,but also, suggesting an accessory, flaunt your score, invite friends, make a comparative rating war, rate for a better team, a better blog, a better video or a better news coverage.
So, people lets come forward to check this new "Young Entrepreneurial Venture", and make it a big success.
Enjoy,
Only on www.YoMacha.com.
Happy Rating.....!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Bandeh by Indian Ocean
Amazing Video, I am in love with this Group....Indian Ocean
Must Watch......
Enjoy..!!!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Was sitting idle and was thinking of a topic to write.....Din't know what to write about,or where to start from...then suddenly I realised, why not write about the most influential lady of my life......
Its Mother's Day tomorrow,that is on 11th May, 2008. And it is just an another day to thank our mom, not just for whteva for everything,but also because we are lucky enough,that we got a best friend, in the form of our mother.....god was very polite to us ,and obviously very happy with our deeds,that we have got such an amazing parents...
I am sure you must be thinking,why m I writing us,instead of me....the only reason is...that for everyone..there parents are the best parents in the whole world......every mother is the bestest best mother on this earth....
So,I am just another lucky girl....who's got a best friend,an inspiration and motivation in the form of Mother. Mother being everything in one's life, the only one person on this earth, for whom "Impossible is Nothing", and also the line that fits is"Just Do it". A perfect person who knows how to manage 100 things together, not only us,also handles entire family. And not only a family also handle whatever is given to her,her home, her work, her daily tasks, her kids......almost everything..and that too without anything in return,all she wants is love,admiration...and time...
I know,most of us,find it difficult to spend some time at home...but still despite the difficulty, whenva we feel low,we wnt our parents to be with us,specially mom....she understand you the most,may be in few case,dads are more understanding,but she is equally important.
Even I have a special bonding with her,she is not only my mom,but also my companion, my friend, and my true mate....she understand everything,even if i dont tell her myself..She howz the best way to read anyone's face..she knows when i am hungry,when i wnt something, or may be when my sick or happy...not only this,she also knows what i do, where i go, and whom i meet.....In India, the person who knows everything,we call them "ANTERYAAMI", and thats what my mom is.....
Sweet, polite, gentle, caring, understanding, angelic, magnificent, true, etc etc etc....fren...the words are not just enough...
I am glad and thank god, for giving such wonderful parents.....and also pray to make these people a part of me,in every birth...if that happens....
I am sure..everyone will agree with me,and will simply go,and thank people around us for being there.......
Cheers to the World's Best Mom....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:)
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Yo Macha
Quite a while ago, our website "www.yomacha.com" was doing pretty better,initially it had more than 100 visits, good number of unique visitors n all, but don't know, what is the real issue,the data has gone down now, I will not say,that I can't do anything for it,because at the moment I am the one responsible, doing as much Viral marketing I can do, sending scraps to enormous groups,different communities, i know for sure....but still finding it difficult to increase the number of hits per day, not only to women,but scraps are being sent to men as well.....as well....have posted on certain websites.
I have heard a lot of link building,not only heard but also have read a lot about it,usually it is considered to b "easy way" to build the links between various websites, but for sure,initial progress rate is usually low....And m sure there is a real easy way to increase the traffic on the website. All these Search Engine Optimization (SEO), Link Building, Sand boxes, n all....seems to be big big words but trust me,they are not,though at the moment i am finding it little difficult to figure out how to get hold of them, but m working on it, trying to understand various things required, lets c how it works.
Anyways, initially its a matter of time, gradually things grow,and when they grow,they grow at their own speed,without getting affected by the market strategies and plans. We can it fad, once it will become a fad, no one will be able to stop it,from growing.
People are still working on it, not only in the terms of marketing but also,technically, PR and almost everything that is possible. At times i feel,its not all that great to be associated with the Big names, because then it becomes more difficult to make its own place....or to make a stand in the market....but what ever it may be,we know how to do what, though, saying is always easier then doing,but its not Impossible, things are difficult but there is nothing that could not be done, or we can't do, its just that,things take there own time to be at a place.
And now,let me share a little about the portal, I am sharing problems about.....:)
Its www.yomacha.com.....I am sure almost in every blog of mine,i have shared a bit about it... but can't help it, I have been associated with it,from the start, from the time,when it was just the idea......eeehhhhhhhhhhh....
will not discuss about it,few things should be kept hidden...;)
anyways,its a funky portal,at the moment we have limited features like rate people, get rated, flaunt your score, invite friends, share the link.....but soon we will have other options like, upload, rate and share videos, rating wars, message board and all.....and all these things are completely user generated.......People are also working on its looks, I am sure you are going to like it....
Though, i am not through with my gossips and talks,but i think you people are getting bored of reading about yomacha......but trust me.....its good and interesting (don't worry m not forcing you to read my blogs, m talking about YoMacha.com)........lolz...
People know me,I can't change, if I've something in my mind.....i ensure,that everyone knows it........hehehehehehehehe...
People say,I am a chatter box, and absolutely perfect to spread the news, and make them Gossips......;)
Saturday, April 26, 2008
I am never going to forget 26th April,2008, time 18:50hrs.
After having a fun saturday,working for only few hours,then going out for drink with friends and colleagues and watching a movie(not gonna comment on the movie...coz it was real torture.....a pathetic movie with too long dialogues, infact irrelevant ones,unnecessary and completely maddening. How can Ajay Devgan write a story and how can they make such a terrible film, neva mind,still we Indians enjoy every kinda movies....WE ARE JUST FREAKS,AND WE CAN DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING,SPECIALLY THE IMPOSSIBLES... :)
See i ve commented,that me...infact its about everyone.....we appraise, always critize but neva appreciate....its Indian nature,atleast that is what I feel.....)
There is a very good joke on Indians....."Americans hate others, and we hate each other".
Well I am not here to discuss about what we Indians are or what we are not...
But to share an interesting discussion I had. While going back home from the movie, my activa stopped on the way, was looking around for help...as in if something could be done....then a man came to me,and asked me if he can help......i dint wanted to get into any discussion so dint say much.....but he really helped...and asked me if i want to see his institute.....I don't know why, but I thought to go and chek it.
So i just went in, while moving ahead, heard someone teaching students about English Communication. And found two females sitting inside a room, may be they were waiting for the teacher to go, or atleast shall leave the class so that they can go, whateva it may be,its not my matter of concern,everyone does that.......so its ok.
They asked me certain questions n all, and asked me to wait. At 7:05pm rather 1905hrs the director(the man who helped me) called me...as in I went to meet him only.......
He asked me certain questions about me,as to what I want do ,and what am I doing currently,etc etc...
And took an assessment....that assessment included basic grammar and words, their pronounciation and little bit of vocabulary. And then he gave me a feedback and also throughout the assessment he corrected me whreva required, asked me to read more, watch english programs and BBC/CNBC n all......I was really not happy....may be not satisfied,that he understood thr only...then started our random but interesting discussion..
Discussion about what communication skill and english communication mean....about what they basically teach...what are all things I need to work on...etc etc etc......Actually in that discussion we not only discussed about communication skills,but aslo a lil about politics, variuos kind of students. Shared our thoughts about "Confidence" as a word and as a quality in people...also about different perception of people at various levels and various situations...the varience between people from differeny places, metros to cities........villages n all....
I was really amazed with person's vocabulary and the way we had our discussion...he is such a patient man.I am impressed,that why the first thing i am doing is, writing a lil about the whole thing...
Thats silly and shocking,but you know itz me........kuch nahi ho sakta mera.....
But yaa.....that meeting was worth.....he gave me his card....and was a lil impressed with my inquisitiveness..........my confidence.......hehehehhehehe.....
And he also said,that I can be a good Communication skills trainer,just need a lil polishing of my skills..........waise now i can think about it ;)
Anyways,a gr8 day yaa...........completely worth...atlst after such a deadening movie....
:)
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Have you ever wondered, how does it feel when you have to wait for something you have been working for long. Or may be, have you ever thought that if you start something,you will end up waiting for it, for long....that too something like one and half month.
Thats what we call a step to start a new entrepreneurial project.....You always be optimistic and sure,that everything will work out well, but then little later you start to realise that....thrz really a difference between what is said,and what is done.....Though people are lil skeptical about the idea,but we always tend to be calm, and patient, and confident too about the plan, the strategy ,basically about the whole concept.
So, initially when the idea(we are working on) came into existence, the team was completely involved in it....we were thinking of it,eating with it,sleeping with it,going out with it.....etc,etc, etc...Even our personal life was also got influenced with it,and we started to use the termnologies and whteva thing was possible.
And also everyone always end up spending hours in the office, searching for one BIG idea, reading hundreds of articles, checking out millions of website (I really pray to the god,that whateva we have read, should get used,wheneva possible).....
And then finally was the day,when we launched it.....It was a big day for all of us, worked for it,and really got good response. IT WAS AN ANOTHER STEP FOR PEOPLE, BUT AN IMPORTANT STEP FOR US, for a team of 5people. (Which is going to b a team of 4 people,coz our entertainer, chiller, lousy yet smart, connected guy has got selected for Malaysian MC and is leaving for malaysia on 14th.....)
Coming back to the track and to the point m sure,which is not a very difficult task,but the only problem is.....that..eehhhhhhhhh......i just need to think...
Anyways,an example of getting affected by the idea and the project we r working on is....that I tried my hands on Corel......and also, have become a blogger.....(people beware......you can't escape from reading my blogs...coz usually i force people to read it,cant help it yaa......i am a lil obssessed with myself......hehehehhehe.....whateva!!!!!!) and a little while ago,I came across one of my friend's blog.....initially the title was different but now it has been changed. We have started writing abt other websites(bitching,basically what i call it), in simple terms everyone is multitasked now......
Finally, we all are excited and damn sure...that whateva we are doing, we will be successful one day......that too very soon.....I know for sure,that it will be soon,coz i know that you our generation is lil impatient..it is a Gen Y with no commas and fulstops...
So, we have kept our fingers crossed, and now when we have our people in form,we are gonna work well and make it Dynamic project.
Macha
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Now the Time has come!!!!
No more wait, no more time pass, no more random discussion over a cuppa coffee. The time has come,we ve been waiting for long......too long actually.....time to fulfill a dare dream, time to prove ourselves...
Again the Gen "Y" is ready for the new challenges......A group of people average age 23, with immense pleasure announces the Launch of their Website.."www.yomacha.com".....
The launch is on 17th of April.....
First step towards the journey.....journey to life...journey of dreams.....Endless.......
And we are all set, little tensed, worried.......but all we say is
"Chahe mushkile kitni bhi aaye, chahe toofan kitne bhi aaye... hum main hain woh josh aur junoon... hain woh jajba, ki jeetlenge jahaan ko..."
People don't forget.....its: www.yomacha.com
Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, April 14, 2008
Finally, the day is about to come!!!!
In the new era of young entrepreneurs, we are not only growing technically but also the growth in terms of money and other infrastructural requirements. So as the need of Social Networking has risen. And for that, too the various facilities have been provided now a day, by many telecom industries and related industries. They not only charge minimal amount but also, they provide us with good services and access to 1000s of other things.
But when it comes to Social networking, has become a fad these days. We really need to be little safe, there are millions of social networking sites available, and every second teens are coming up with one or the other entrepreneurial project. And obviously it has become an easiest and the simplest mode of making big money.
These social networking websites not only provides us, an opportunity to be in touch with our friends, option of finding friend is always there(thanks to them, I have managed to find a friend of mine, who was with me, when I was in 5th Class...amazing...m surprised, she recognized me, at the one go. M sure she has a very sharp memory, and her mom has fed her with loads of memory tonic n all......ehhhh......who is bothered) my point is, that they work, and they r really working for almost everyone....people, m sure you agree with me.
And also because have become more and more conscious about their looks and also about their friends group. People who have got looks they flaunt it and others look for it. Because of the boom in the industry, the entire upcoming portals have options of rating, view profile, make friends, find friends, comments n all. So, we a group of people (average age of 23) have also come up with an idea of a funky rating portal, all you will do is to upload your picture and let others say. It provides you an easy going and a safe platform to rate people and act ostentatiously.
And also, you can go ahead and rate others, share the link; send comments (message board) and “Flaunt your Score”. We have been trying to make it safe, as our key point is its safety, none of the save options work, no print screen could be done, no obscene or inappropriate picture will be allowed. And it’s simple.
It gives us immense pleasure to announce the launch of our portal on 17th April, so enjoy your time at www.yomacha.com
Happy rating!!!!
PS: Any more suggestions and ideas are welcome, and appreciated.
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
Ideology
(Disclaimer:
The characters,events and the story picturised in my blog are true and real but are not intended to reflect the life of any individual or individuals. As these are the real incidences happened with me,would like to share my views on the same. As its resemblence to actual persons and real events is purely existent and genuine, I apologize for the scathe due to my conclusions.)
Simple Ideology......huhhhhhh....how can anyone's ideology be simple????? I just dont interpret or percieve things the way others do...and also no one can force me...
Thats my way....
And I ve simple example, to justify.......
Case One:
A guy wants to get some posters done, and the logo of his company too.... but he simply can't figure out how to relate it to its name...ve a different ideology,want to have togetherness, recreation with intellect....but not sure.....but thats not what others think....they ve percieved it in a different way, letz c wht conclusion do we cme up with.
Case Two:
A girl, an MBA, working for a good brand....earning decently good, and her parents want her to settle down. Even she thinks that her parents r right,but now here comes her ideology.
She want to pursue MBA again, from a Top B school,so tht she can earn handsome salary... And also,she don't belves in the concept of Love marriage,or affair....blah blah blah.... dont like intercast thing happening. In the simple and general terms she is confused, and her ideology too...
Case Three:
A guy had an arguement with his friends, for a reason that they can't decide anything in life...They are not disciplined...termed it as idiocy...And for that matter cme up with a conclusion that damn everyone is like that....Now his ideology is absolutely different and biased, it can be interpreted in so many different ways, and can be used against him as well...
And finally,
Incident Four:
While chatting, smeone asked me, How can i say that our generation(which i refered to Gen Y in my previous blog) is focused or determined? He thinks we are more spoilt and confused. Technically, the examples like, drunken nights in pubs and discos, exuberant sex life, driven by alcohol n cociane n stuff like that, interpret only one thing,that yes We are Spoilt,but not confused....Coz m sure,our generation knows wht we r doing,or whr we r heading too.....(may b i am an exception,coz i am really confused with things,but itz ok,coz the average of our population thinks the other way round).
I know its difficult to relate the incidents,but the only thing i ve understood from all the above is....if Ideology is Simple,but its simple for you,not for everyone.
And by any chance, if its simple, for everyone else,then its not ideology,itz a myth....for sure..
Its Irony...........................
Monday, April 07, 2008
Everything Will Be ok!!!!!!
After devoting long hours, figuring out strategies of SEO (search engine optimization) page rank, online marketing, viral marketing, adsense, adword, etc etc etc........now we are waiting for our portal,www.yomacha.com, to get launched. The one thing, we have been doing for long.....is waiting...I don't know much about the technical side....but it seems as if it has really became a incumbrance for the tech guys.....so they handled it,lil brutally...and now finally have handed ova to us...(trust me,m serious about it,thrz no flamboyance)
Now the whole thing will start agn,our own tech guy, ll be handling it...he ll be helping us,in adding certain things to it,etc etc etc...i shuldn't be discussing abt it,now coz itz still in the testing phase....so people,let it get launched....m sure we ll manage to make it,on the top of the list.
But, deep within I am thinking about it,in a different prospective...I or me.....from a commerce background, worked with genpact fr three years(international call centre)....thn joined patrika.....was supposed to work fr event mngemnt team,but ended up working wid branding and business development part of it.....now doing Online marketing and web promotion thing.......for a new company,a joint venture.(Aj,thats what I ve understood so far about my profile,if thrz anythin incorrect or superfluous....please excuse me)
Actually my only area of concern, is that what I am supposed to do.......I ve never been a marketing girl......never evn thought of it...for that matter.....i was just lucky,i got an opportunity to work wid patrika...
But m confused(believe me,itz not taradiddle)......when it comes to deciding about what i shuld do,or what i shuld be doing.....i really dn't know...whom to ask....
At times,i think,my dad's right,if i would ve done MBA,atlst i would ve got sme lakhs job,with big company name n all....but thr was smthin tht alwys stopped me frm going for it...i always wntd to do,smething of my own, I wantd to b an event manager,but dint go fr it....thn i joined genpact...but after 3yrs...i realised,tht it was nt my cup of tea...i know i realised it,lil late...but nw cn't help it...dn't wana regret abt it,coz atlst i ve learn't many things thr....atlst,one major thing is, Me....i changed alot,all the people who know me, that accept the fact....(but m still confused.....lolzzzzz.....)
Whateva it may be now.....the only thing is,whteva I am doing i wnt to gve my 100%,and also,dont want to circumscribe myself, want to do and know,as much is possible.....
M sure,my mentors are going to help me,in understanding not only personal matters but also business deals, for that matter overall business development........including branding,promotion, marketing(and also for training and develoment as well,how can forget about it).....and small small things like HR issues, inventory,paper work,etc etc etc.......
I hope everything goes well for me.......in the coming future........atleast I wish to achieve something in life(people dnt ask me what that something is.....hehehhehehehe..but m sure I ll....)
Itz just the time,who is playin wid me.....but,I know my day will come........and Everything will be Ok!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sunday, April 06, 2008
People Around Me!!!!!!!
Influenced me, helped me....my friends,my rivals.......my inspiration, motivation, my Life.
(with few of them,i vn't spend much time,but they ve played an important role.......)
Thanks to all....
love yaa.....
Thursday, April 03, 2008
Act of Progression: Generation "Y"
Generation Y is poised to make a huge impact on society in the future. It is quickly developing its own flair and character.
As the world is moving forward, so are we progressing. But don't know, why we Indians always end up working a li'l extra then others. That too our upcoming generation wants to achieve everything in a short span of time. And why short span of time? Coz we don't want to waste our lives in doing a little,always wanting to do more and DO BIG is our motto of life.
When it comes to achievement, we believe in "IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING"..
And we confide on "JUST DO IT".
The ginormous enthusiasm, our generation have is remarkable, and commendable.
But is that really we should do, or is this the way we should be?? I would like to make a few "serious" overall comments though. Every generation has a name: There was the Greatest Generation, Generation X, and so on. I think our upcoming generation, if they are not called Generation Facebook, will instead be known as the Generation That Could Not Use Commas. Everything goes on and on and on, without any comma or full stop.
The Act of Progression is taking us away from the reality, away from society. It has nothing to do with family culture or relationships. We just believe in success, at any cost. We even don't have time to gambol,or catch up with friends...and these latest technologies are providing us with an alternate source, that too, the cost we have to pay is minimal at the moment,but am sure we will end up paying our lives for it.
What ever it may be, we know what we want to do. We have made our goals clear. Generation Y, like other generations, is shaped by the events, leaders, developments and trends of its time, and reputation for being peer oriented and for seeking instant gratification.
Tuesday, April 01, 2008
Excogitation
As usual don't know how to start today's blog. Actually its already 12:03am now,so its yesterday's blog,not today's, but anyways, just wanted to write something....
Now again there is one more confusion as to,what shall I write about today......things we did in the offce...or the time we spent at Mr. Beans (a coffee cafe)...or what am I thinking or feeling today...
Better I should cover all the things,one by one....see I have got a chance to bore and irritate you people as much as I can....but please don't blame it,you yourself have chosen to read what I write or whateva I have written....hehehehehhehehe. And also don't come to beat me for this random stuff...coz my life has become random....usually there simply mood swing kinda things happens.....AND TODAY FOR A CHANGE I AM FEELING GOOD, HAPPY AND INNOVATIVE BUT LITTLE DESTRUCTIVE.......now again don't ask me..how can I feel so many things altogether....itz me yaa.......I can do anything and everything....and if you wana compete...toh aa jao maidaan main.....ho jaaye samanaa......lolzzzzz
Ok lets not get into quarrel things,and with the good note that the weather for last 2days has been rocking,and you know what itz still raining heavily, and it gives such an energetic feeling....may be everyone will think,that 'how anyone can feel energetic at 12:30am?',but itz me.....again,anything and everything is possible.....hehehehe
So.........we have been enjoying the weather,today toh we all went to Mr. Beans (thanks to Vandy,she took me thru a new way....pataa nahi kya tha....bas straight straight straight....lolzzz,and finally we reached there SAFE) and after reaching there my brain actually started to work(now again thats usual,because when I am out of my regular schedule thing,I really feel different) just felt like arguing with someone.....better i should mention that i was literally in a mood to fight with someone.....obviously not boxing kinda thing...but just words fight.....but dint do anything of that sort obviously,otherwise m sure beans' people would have kicked me out of the the place...neither I was interested in spoiling my so called "being simple" image.....and now m sure..people who know me...are deffinately going to comment on this statement....and I am ready for it.... :)
So,had 2 cafe lattes there.....discussed about all usual things,called Tina(actually her name is Padmasana Kothari,one of the directors of Rajasthan Patrika group, and also she is an Ex-AIESECer) and there were four more people...actually can't tell much about them,coz even I don't know....but one thing I know for sure, is that, they all are AIESECers....
the reason is that Ajit( my boss), Vandy and Jai have been associated with AIESEC, and I am the only one left out(but not completely,even I did joined it,but thanks to my people at home,they dint liked my idea of getting associated with anythin,any organisation at that time,so I left it in just one day)...eh..So after having random conversations(not all,coz we even discussed a bit about advertisement thing with Tina for our upcoming website,YOMACHA.COM),coffees and few phone calls, I left the place, and rushed towards home,where as usual my mom was waiting for me,to share her daily ke kisse........and as I was feeling like arguing with someone,finally ended contending with her.......even spoke to dad........AND ALSO TROUBLED AJIT,called him up and spoke to him for 25minutes........discussed about SEO, google algorithm, page ranks,etc,etc,etc.....
After that "an idea" clicked in my mind.....and I excogitated of making a presentation......naa naa....I am not going to tell you the idea,let me do it,let me finish my presentation,then i will share......
And finally at 12,I made up my mind to write my blog.....and c,thats what I have come up with..
and now......bbye for the day......... :)
Hey people....listen,did I tell you about my Chiya's new pic.......amazing......he is a dude....he is my inspiration,my life......he is my "would be" husband......Actually itz his picture, I have added with this blog.....see I am so obssessed......lolzz..
So now,finally.....m sighing off for the day......c yaa.......
Monday, March 31, 2008
Dont know what to write about today.......
it not matter of me being short with the topics,but m just a lil confused,with what to write about...
about the day,good weather, rain.......or about the dinner i had with one of my old friend,actually we met after almost an year....and he is a big guy....an industrialist, who has jumped into 6new ventures,including resort thing n all.........and his company this yr,has shown 116% growth.....wowowwwwww....thats too much..
who use to be little more chilled out,but now have become serious....alwys busy with meetings and all.....even we were supposed to meet in the evening at 5....but weather was so good,that we met at 7...it was raining heavily,yaaa......then as usual,he asked me where to go,i dont understnd,why can't people just choose a place themselves......they alwys say........that for sure..i can suggest a better place........do i look like a directory or something..... anywys,itz good,atlst that ways,i go to place of my choice.....hehehehehehe...n eat and drink,whteva i want to......i really enjoy that.....finally went fr a coffee.....schmoozed.....then went for a veggie dinner......i don't understnd,why ppl dont like non veg......i toh,just can't live without it......lolllzzzzz...n at last came back home by 10.....
anywys,as it wasn't a date........and nothin exciting happenend so no point in writing random stuff........(but m sure,when my friend is gonna read this......he ll deffinately gonna becme stromy,2 reasons behind it,one,i ve written about such a general thing.....secondly,that too, i ve not written it properly....actually ve missed out...everything that we discussed about.....heheheehheheheehhehehehhehehe)
waise i m thinking to give this a heading...A Random Incident,in the Evening Time...eh.
Hey people,what do i really wanted to share??????????? Forget it yaa,now even i dont remem....
day by day...as i m growing old or because of the workload(which m sure,if aj ll read,he ll ensure that i m working really hard,for atlst nxt few days.....so i ll prefer blaming my age).......m also loosing memory......atlst at this time....i dont remem anything....may be next i ll ve smethin to share,something more interesting n funky,or may be i should write about the curious incident of the dog in the night time,lolz....i ll share it with everyone.....
Anyways,all of you,who are actually wasting time reading my blog.......please be ready for kinda pranks,itz 1st april now...........
Enjoy......
Sunday, March 30, 2008
30th March,2008,
Place: Jawahar Kala Kendra
It was 6:15pm, I reached Jawahar Kala Kendra, we call it JKK. Parked my active,and looked around,somebody was suppose to come,or be there with a "Yellow Rose" in his hand, waise toh I knew that guy pehle se,but as it was our first formal date,he asked me, "tum mujhe pehchaanogi kaise?" I said,"pehchaan lungi.....",then he said,that he ll bring a yellow rose with him, and asked me to bring a white one wid me.....I sd no,dont worry, I ll be able to recognise you....thats so dumbstruck
anywys,while looking around I called him,he sd,look back,i did,then he sd can u see that guy across the road in red shirt.....I was floored, he sd towards ur left,n frankly speaking I dint c anyone thr, but no bother.
Then finally after waiting for like 5mins,he came and we went inside JKK,thr was also Craft Bazaar going on towards it right.
So finally we went in,settled down at a corner seat,where the fan was also not working,but as it was almost full,so just got that place to sit.....
and then begun our date,asking about each other,how am I,and ssup n all...
discussed almost everythin we can possibly do including howz my work going, and howz my BOSS,ajit..and also about my previous boss, and my previous company n all...
aslo discussed about relationships n all....as in,how good i am at it,and tuning with people around me...obviously how he is,when he ll be getting married n all,about his nature n all random stuff...
thats what usually happenz yaa....(it isin't funny, m serious)...
After being for an hour,we realised that now we shuld go home,actually i was getting late....so while leaving,went to the counter,and asked for the bill.......I WAS SHOCKED WHEN I CAME TO KNOW ABOUT THE BILL.........THE DATE COST US "HELL",'24RUPEES'......my gawd......
How can it be,atlst i can't believe it!!!!!!
But itz true....amazing isin't it!!!!!
Just loved the date yaa.......thanks to my friend....
came out, fagged,and finally left for home....
people trust me,m not joking,but itz a true incident, about an ultimate date, I had...........
An Ultimate Date,that too the cheapest I ve eva gone for....
c yaaa......with something new......
Itz by paakistani singer...Call...and the song is Kaash.....
Just chek out,may be you ll have some different perception about it....coz one of my friends suggested it,he sd it nice...lolzzz.....
Enjoy.......
Friday, March 28, 2008
Feeling demented....people who know me,they say there is nothin new to it....I am alwys crazy n mad, actually insane...and also they say i am talkitive.....
sometimes i think, m i really like that or, i try to be smething else,just pretendin to b different me...I still remember whn i came to jaipur, i just had one aim...that i ve to go back to delhi...dont wana stay here,wanted to be with my friends,and dont knw,but thr was smthin i never liked about this place(dont ask me now about it,coz even i dnt remember what was that....)(sigh!)...but dnt knw what happened...m still here....now dont wana leave this place.....
thrz smthin that is withholding me....the reson could be the people i ve met,or the things i ve done so far...may be they were of no or very small relevance..but still i wana count those....atlst meeting people is somethin i wana count...
Learnt alot from them....may be nothin professional,but did learn about life,how to survive...how to be happy,even when you are really not. Hw to be someone else,despite of being what you are,n all other random affairs.
May be,itz a part of life.
Now again after such a long time,again i am going through the same phase of deciding what to do in life....but yeah,there is one thing for sure.......
I am waiting for something big to happen so that i can braggart and also can rule the macrocosm.....
I can feel some positve vibes around me.....or...may be i want to feel like that,but whateva it is...i am happy and alwys want to b happy....for that matter,even want people around me to be happy....
waise toh this not practically possible.....coz i can't hold myself when it comes to irritating people....I dont know when i ve become like that...but now i enjoy it....and also...i talk too much....completely philosophical i ve become......can give gyan to anyone and everyone,about anything and everything.
Just feeling little nasty about being so random, can't figure out abhi.....what will do next.....
now that too much about me......that too random...
but people,dont worry...very soon ll come up with something interesting.......for sure.
may be sme good issue, good people.....
Thursday, March 20, 2008
"Women" is a splendid issue....I don't understand why do people talk about it when they don't know women? No one actually understands "Women", its just the superficial act of the society to fight against the authorisation of certain rights.
According to dictionaries Women is a female person who plays a significant role (wife or mistress or girlfriend) in the life of a particular man, or according to wikipedia, it is referred as a female human. The term woman (irregular plural: women) usually is used for an adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child or adolescent. However, the term woman is also sometimes used to identify a female human, regardless of age, as in phrases such as "Women's rights".
But, if really come to think of the fact,atleast in India, is this an exact meaning of the word.
Whenever I hear or think of women,the first person comes to my mind is my mother, scientifically she is a female human, but is that the only relevant definition, mother is a significant role player in everyone's life.
Why do we only talk about Mother Teresa or Indira Gandhi, Sonia Gandhi or Indra Nooyi, every women around us has a significance. I think,and I strongly believe that my mother can compete anyone. Infact I truely believe that women are uncomparable, revived and revitalising. A smile, and things are sorted.
Don't wana make things complicated for anyone...but want to say one thing..
for sure.....itz the easiest thing to understnd a women...u just need to b a little patient.....n caring..And also they can do anything in life....they just need to decide....and that thing will be done.
A wide concept,but the most simple thing in the world is "Women".