An experience, to be continued.......

At 10am Raj was stressed about the Seminar, he said,this is for the first time he is nervous about it. The reason was obvious, its was not a college, college.....Its was GyanDeep Mahavidyalaya....Going there was an experience in itself. About 15kms from Jaipur, it took us 45minutes to be there, with the kind of road, actually I should say the condition of the roads, that too at the NH-11...actually it was not exactly there but yes, a road parallel to it, towards Dausa...I am sure many people don't know about it, but people from Jaipur are much aware of the place and can imagine the kind of roads and place that is. Anyways, I don't want to talk about the roads because,we can't do much about it.. But about the college or so called Mahavidyalaya is one thing I really want to share with all. A college with just four room building....with black boards..actually it was looking more like a government school then a college. Anyways, I would like to leave this issue as well,because,again I can't do much about it,in fact I can't do anything about it. But yes, the actual experience started when we entered the place and saw students playing some ball game outside, in the heat...obviously when there are many people, or rather we are with our friends, its hardly matters about the weather, as I remember that,when I was in Chennai,me and my friend Akanksha used to chill out the entire day,and everyone is much aware of the weather in Chennai or places like Pondicherry....but anyways, back to the college were the students playing....in the name of the lecturers their were only two teachers there..Actually before we reached, a teacher of that college met with an accident,so the entire staff (I have no clue,as to how many teachers cum lecturers were there actually) went to the hospital,wherever this was hospitalized. Anyways, they managed to ask students to gather in a classroom (I thought it will a seminar hall, at least a hall,but it was a small class room,where they arranged the chairs for everyone) don't ask me about the total strength of the students, because that will be a reason for all to laugh, but it is all right with the kind of the place and the environment, even a few students can make a difference. So far so good, we were about to start the seminar, before that we decided that it will be a seminar in Hindi, as they will not be able to understand what we are saying if we will use English as a medium or language for coomunication... Ohhhh, before that,did I tell you the topic of the seminar was "English Language Communication cum Personality Development". Although we knew that its going to be baseless seminar which has nothing to do with Personality Development at least. So, we went inside the class, managed to settle ourselves and Raj started intereacted with people....trying to talk and interact in Hindi he was a little conscious, and its fine. He went ahead shared things with them and asked certain questions like, why are you studying??? What do you want to do in life? Some of the answers were funny, like...one of the students among them was there just for time pass, one said, because everybody else is studying so he decided that he will too go for it......
By such answers anyone can expect the standard of the college and the students. Finally we managed to give 15minutes to such type of questions and unexpected answers, the moment we were about to begin the actual Topic, one of the officer from the Administration department came and informed us about the critical condition of the leady teacher who was in the hospital and requested us to wind-up the seminar. It wasn't enough....now see what he actually said to the students,he said all the sudents to gather on the raod, and asked the guys to carry stones with them and also ordered them to block on road and stop all the buses. He said that these kind of accidents can happen with anyone, so they are going to protest against it, and to do that, they will stop all the buses and might also break the glasses of the vehicles passing by...
It just made us think about the kind of education that is being provided to those students, they can only head towards politics nothing else,that too bad politics. If the teachers are going to ask students to fight, who will the responsible for the kind of environment, that is getting created. I know, even its our responsibility to convince those students not to fight, but isn't it necessary for the lecturers there to make them understand that they have come to study and not to fight or take action and decision against whatever has happened. Trust me such things happen and we blame the police....now obviously the question occurs in my mind, as to why we blame others, aren't we responsible for the same.
As always,no answer to these questions.....We moved from there and came back to our office with an experience which is still not over,as there were students who want us to be there once again and complete the session. Lets see whether we do it or not, but one thing for sure...that we realized, that people have potentials to do and achieve whatever they want to, they just need a proper guidance and good sources.

And the experience is to be continued.................

For you Raj, I still don't want to go there again....
:) :)

Too Random....

One week already gone.......and I am still struggling hard to update my blog...but man its really difficult.......wondering how to start or how towrite.....Dont know...what am I going todo.....
newys........what a wella week this has been....its was monday yesterday....Boss told me on Saturday,......that we are closing very soon....thse ppl want us to work on diffrent projects....Don't know what kind of projects are these people talking about but its there.......anywys...week has already started.....Monday was the day we din't do anything and again today we ve not donwe anything so far.......just wondering how boring or interesting...I dont know so far..this week is gonna be....
But this gave a point to think about as to......is this what I really want to do....but yeah...just thought of one thing...i always wanted to do...TRAINING....Mannnnn...!!!! its so interesting...I ve got people who pay to listen to what I want to say....random shit man.....sometimes it is...sometimes it is not.....but i dont care what people really have to say about it......
but no doubt...........I am damn confused about the entire hell of the shit....
See how many times I ve used this word....I am sure...people must be thinking as to Am i really normal or not.....but nothing like it...when I dont ve anything.....to do...i write....and what do i write even I get confused....
Anyways...please force me to write......so that...i can update my blog about my trip to Chennai.....Its was fun mannnnn...!!!!!!! really.....ultimate...whenver I check the images...I really enjoy every moment of it.........again.....
Will definitely write about it soon.......

Thanks for reading this absolute random post......
:)

An Unusual Experience..!!!!!

We are in an age,where at least in India, our parents are worried about marriages, And the whole exercise starts as we turn 20...At least that happens at our place..And it keeps on happening till the time they don't find a "Perfect" match for us....Mannnn....!!!!! Perfect sounds so imperfect....are they really a perfect matches...then why do we always end...checking out more then one person.....It becomes a matter of Soul mates then soul mate....
And for surprise,this not only happens with a girl,but also for guys.....the moment they complete their studies....entire process starts with a bang....
Discussing with friends and relatives......not only those people...but you will find parents discussing about the same with random people...and when it comes to marriage...these random people become child hood friends....Don't know what is so extra ordinary about it. Now the generation has changed..people are becoming independent,but still this one thing called "marriage" we are still dependent on our parents...or rather I should say...we are forced to be dependent on them....May be I do not belong to the same category,as my parents have given me enough freedom to choose my Life Partner....but it does not happens with everyone....
Two examples form my home....
Example First:
My cousin (sister).....only a few months elder to me...has been forced to get married to any random guy for last 5years....Absolute random guys come to our place......eat, waste our time and then leave...and whats the result..a big "No"......reason.....nobody knows...and I am sure...even god will be blank if we will ask him.....
Man....people at my place spent like anything...good food,good clothes......new curtains and this and that...Yaaaaiiikkksssss......!!!!!!
Can't do much about it...
Now another incident...actually it happened recently.....Another cousin (this time brother)....who is been forced to get married...because of family situations.....na na....family situations doesn't mean that they r not financially strong or something....but things and issues like Grand parents age and stuff.....all random shit...like how can you force anyone to get married when he or she is not prepared for it.... Anyways....Some other relative or some relative found a girl for him.......actually neither was he interested not ready for all the things... and parents and grand parents called them for lunch....man,can you imagine..the guy even didn't know the name of the girl..neither he checked out her picture...but was asked to take a final decision about his life with her...They came....checked our house...had food...talked random things....praised themselves....waise not only him....people from our side are nowhere lesser to them..so they also...shared extreme random things....and praises were going on and on and on and on......now imagine......was a real torture it was for the rest of the people like me...who had nothing to do with the entire so called "ceremony"...anyways, it came to an end...but jaate jaate...they invited us for the evening tea...to see and meet the girl.....like was that really required to call everyone...or what that really required for everyone to go....
Anywys,we were not and can never be the decision makers....but then....ok leave it...anyways, we went to their place.....had loads of food...man can you imagine...hey kept on placing plates with things...throughout.....
Anyways...finally they asked the boy and girl to talk and understand each other....like in just two minutes they are going to tell eachother almost everything about themselves....but anyways....but our Indian culture says that its a tradition...god knows who believes in such traditions now...
But anywys...they chatted....for an hour.....and during the session.....sometimes....from our side, or others side...people used to go to the room and disturb both of them....Man imagine that conversation was unending..they went for a drive and blah and blah and blah and blah.....
it went on and on and on and on......
Anyways, hall I tell you the result as well.....
Same as above.........
No result.....
As we say..No news is the best news.........so same was the case with the result,atleast for the people who were associated with the entire thign...."No result is the best result"....
Even we went like random people....ate food....wasted time...and came back......
But still, I don't understand.....do all these really required....man even i believe its all stupid and waste of time and money....
Anyways..people may not agree with me...but thats my personal statement or perspective toward things.....
:)